HRT helps individuals become more aware of a repetitive behavior, understand what may be triggering it, and learn new ways to respond when the urge occurs. While treatment is tailored to each individual’s needs, HRT generally includes several key components.
Awareness
The first step is learning to recognize when the behavior occurs. Many repetitive behaviors become so automatic that people engage in them without realizing it. By better understanding the behavior, we can identify and use strategies at the appropriate time.
Together, we work to identify:
- What the behavior looks like for you
- Early signs that the behavior is about to happen, such as an internal feeling
- Situations, emotions, thoughts, or urges that may increase the likelihood of the behavior
For example, someone who bites their nails may notice their hand moving toward their mouth before they are fully aware of what they are doing. Someone who picks their skin may notice that the behavior tends to happen while watching television, working, feeling stressed, or looking in a mirror.
Learning a Different Response
Once you become more aware of the behavior, the urge to engage in it, and other early warning signs, an alternative response is chosen. This response is designed to make it more difficult to engage in the unwanted behavior while allowing the urge to decrease over time.
For example, a person who bites their nails may practice sitting on their hands, while someone who pulls their hair may learn to fold their hands under their arms.
Reinforcing New Habits
As treatment progresses, the focus shifts from recognizing the behavior and learning a replacement response to using those skills consistently outside of therapy. Together, we identify situations that make the behavior more likely to occur, develop strategies to support continued practice, and problem-solve obstacles that may get in the way of progress.
For some individuals, supportive family members or loved ones may be included in the process. They can learn how to encourage the use of new skills, recognize progress, and provide support when appropriate. Family involvement is not necessary for everyone, but it can be helpful in some situations.
Managing Stress and Triggers
For many individuals, repetitive behaviors become more frequent during times of stress, anxiety, boredom, frustration, or other strong emotions. As part of treatment, we may identify strategies to help you manage these experiences more effectively. Depending on your needs, this might include learning relaxation skills, mindfulness techniques, healthy coping strategies, or other ways to reduce the urge to engage in the behavior. The goal is not to eliminate stress completely but to develop additional tools for responding to it.
Practicing in Real Life
As treatment progresses, the focus shifts from recognizing the behavior and learning a replacement response to using those skills consistently outside of therapy. Together, we identify situations that make the behavior more likely to occur, develop strategies to support continued practice, and problem-solve obstacles that may get in the way of progress. As these skills are practiced in different situations and environments, they often become easier and more automatic over time.